The Star-Spangled Banner

Today's History Lesson for Your Edification:

There was a young and deeply religious lawyer by the name of Francis Scott Key, who had a well-established law practice in Georgetown, near Washington, D.C.

Although he was opposed to the War of 1812, he had a deep love for his country and served in the Georgetown Field Artillery in 1813. He devoted himself to helping many people, some even British soldiers when they were sick or wounded. The British had captured his friend, Dr. William Beanes.

On September 13th of 1814, the British prepared to attack Baltimore. The British agreed to release Dr. Beanes to Mr. Key and another friend John Skinner, but required that they stay on board a British ship until they had finished their attack.

The three Americans could do nothing but watch and wait as the British navy fired huge 200-pound bombs and rockets at Fort McHenry. There were so many ships sunk in Baltimore Harbor that the British could not get closer to land.

The British warships continued to fire upon Fort McHenry. They fired all night. They fired continuously for twenty-five hours.

After witnessing this horrendous bombing from their place on the British ship, the Americans were afraid that Baltimore would be conquered. There was no way to see what was happening because of all the smoke and the very dark night.

Finally at dawn, on September 14, 1814, Mr. Key looked through the telescope.  There in the early morning light, he saw that huge (30 feet by 42 feet) flag waiving proudly over Fort McHenry.

The Americans won the battle and he was overcome with joy. In his celebratory inspiration he wrote the following:

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Oh, say can you see by the dawn's early light
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming?
Whose broad stripes and bright stars thru the perilous fight,
O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there.
Oh, say does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?

When we visited Washington D.C. in May, we had the privilege of seeing the original Star-Spangled Banner.
Thirty feet by forty-two feet, made of wool and linen. It has been preserved and is on display at the Smithsonian Museum of American History.

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The National Anthem always makes me tear up some. Especially at baseball games. (I know. Shut up.)

When we rounded the corner of that exhibit and saw the actual flag that was flying over Fort McHenry on September 14, 1814, as the Star-Spangled Banner played in the background, the tears started flowing.

This time I stood with Francis Scott Key, who felt defeated until the smoke cleared and he asked with awe and wonder:

O say does that star-spangled banner yet wave, o'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?

I stood before the original star-spangled banner and just wept as I asked that same (now more intensely poignant) question and answered with a resounding YES!

Yes, I am Cuban-born.
And yes, I'm proud to be a Naturalized American Citizen.
I'm fiercely patriotic.
I love this great country.
I love the American flag, as it is the symbol of freedom to the rest of the world.

Today I'm in awe of those who pledged their lives and their fortunes to secure the freedoms we enjoy.
I'm grateful that my kids have known nothing but freedom because we live here in America.

Happy Independence Day!

There are so many countries on this earth who wish they could say exactly that.
I'll never, ever take that for granted.

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Lucy and Jonathan in front of the flag exhibit on Ellis Island. May 2009.

SmART Cuban

I have times when I feel inadequate to homeschool my kids.
Not that I can't do stuff, I totally know I can.
It's just that I've never been much of an academic.
I'm more of the right brain, emotionally driven, wow-what-a-great-color artistic type.

And I can do a lot of stuff, except maybe algebra and seriously, name five people that you personally know who use algebra in their every day life. (*crickets chirping* "Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?") I thought so.

So my poor homeschooled kids are saddled with a teacher who has something much more akin to hair-brained schemes as opposed to actual lesson plans. (Okay, shut up. I do make lesson plans, they just happen to be a little loosey-goosey. =D)

But when it's time for field trips.... Look out. I am queen of the unusual-yet-interesting-to-young-minds field trip. (Someone fetch me my tiara!)

I take my kids to live theater, to concerts, to art shows, to museums. We scour flea markets and take the train somewhere. Silly, fun, off-beat stuff. That's what I do best.

For summer "school" we are busy making and designing lots of craft-type projects. From making Adirondack chairs to knitting berets.  I figured that in our "school" my mentoring is worth something. ;-)

So yesterday was a beautiful day in So Cal. The sun came out, the temperature hovered in the low 70's with a slight breeze that sang to us...."come and be a part of this!"

And so obediently we followed the siren song and found ourselves in the cradle of our creative coast: The Laguna Beach Sawdust Festival.

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My niece Natalie is working at the festival this year which secured our free entry. Thanks, Nat! You know, I have quite the large family scattered all over So Cal - we may never have to pay admission to anything ever again! (sorry, digressed into fantasy there for a moment...)  ;-)

Nat works in the ceramic booth, teaching kids how to make pottery on a wheel. Isn't that amazingly cool? She met us outside still sporting her dirty I'm-a-total-working-artist apron.
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The Sawdust Festival is made up of local Laguna Beach artists and crafts-people so there's a little bit of just about everything and most prices are pretty reasonable, especially for the jewelry.

Of course, we bought stuff!
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And we walked around, and took in the live music, and ate food, and clowned around. Actually, we brought Adam, which is the same as bringing our own personal clown. (He totally thought he looked piratey with that elaborate earring. Umm... wrong, son. You just look fashion-challenged. (It was a very cool design that just hung inside your ear, no piercing necessary, but that's not important right now.)
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The kids and I felt totally inspired. I think that's what art does to you. At least that's what it does to me. It gets me a little more connected with my true heart. And I like that.

Look at all the fun stuff we saw:
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By the time we left, with all our fun purchases, we were all in receptive and creative moods. Lucy immediately started working on another creative project and begging for a trip to our local craft store. Jonathan started asking if welding torches were simple to come by. (uh-oh)

I take my parenting and educating job pretty seriously. My goal is to get them to love to learn, to think, to appreciate hard work and embrace their own gifts. I counted this day successful in moving towards that goal.

Having said that, I also know that there are other life-lessons to be learned that I, as their mom, can't possibly teach them, and I know that.

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See what I mean?  =D

Misspellers of the World: UNTIE!

When I started the first grade here in the U.S. I had only been in this country for six months.

We were still trying to get used to life in America and spoke only Spanish at home. (That rule carried on for as long as I can remember.) 

My English at that point was only what I had gleaned from watching Captain Kangaroo ("El Capitán Kanguro") in the mornings. His sidekick, Mister Greenjeans (MEES-TERR GREEEN-YEENS) was particularly fun to attempt to pronounce, but that's not important right now. =D

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Newly arrived Cuban refugee, Martica

But I persevered and worked hard on learning not just English pronunciation, but spelling also. I'm a living example that immersion works, but that's not important right now, either.

To teach myself to spell words, I often resorted to using mnemonic devices. (You know, like using Roy G. Biv to remember the order of the colors in a rainbow - red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, violet - that's still completely genius, isn't it?)

The upshot was that I really mastered spelling. It was crucial for me to learn to speak English in order to fit in to my new country and so I studied hard and learned not just to read, but to understand and to spell.

Fast forward to today. I homeschool my kids. And can you guess what my one pet peeve is in our academic world?

That's right. Spelling.

I don't care if they fumble grammar, but please, please, please! take that extra moment to look up a word and learn to spell it. (I'm on the verge of a rant here, but I'll refrain...)

I was delighted when reader Melek sent me the following:
The 25 Most Commonly Misspelled Words

I jumped in and immediately took the quiz. To my great disappointment, my score was 24 correct out of 27.  I should have gotten them all right! (*said the perfectionist!*)

Okay, so the truth is that there are still words that I totally space on when I am trying to remember how to spell them. I don't know if it's a problem of infrequency of use or that I just never learned them correctly in the first place.

There are two words in particular that I always seem to get wrong:

1) Vacuum
2) Exercise

I always want to add extra c's to both and make them more complicated than they really are.

Hmmm... I think my Freudian-slip is showing!  ;-)

If you like, go take the quiz and let me know how you did by leaving your score in the comment section.

Either that, or just tell me why you hate spelling (or vacuuming...or exercise...).  =D

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Capturing their imaginations

Education at home is not me filling my children's heads with facts as much as it is me "teaching" them how to learn.My educational goals for them have more to do with getting them to love learning as opposed to filling their heads with facts they can parrot back to me immediately but not retain in the long run. Today we visited the battlefield at Gettysburg. Before we got here we had attempted Civil War studies without much real interest. (In fact, I was starting to despair a little, but that's not important right now.) However, walking the battlefield, seeing the battle markers, hearing the stories and then looking over the hills and valleys where one of the most intense battles of the Civil War took place changed EVERYTHING. Suddenly they are fascinated by those 3 intense days of fighting in July and are hungry to learn more. It's in moments like these that I have to remind myself about something I know to be true: REAL learning is more "caught" than "taught." =D0510091520.jpg

Best of Both Worlds

WARNING: A little bit of a homeschool rant coming up....

I'm always a surprised that when people discover that we homeschool our children they ask two primary questions.
You would think the questions would have to do with the actual mechanics of doing school at home, but they don't. (I know. It's shocking to me, too.)

If you homeschool your kids, you know what's coming next:

  1. "What about socialization?"
  2. "What about the prom??"

The first question (with the dreaded "S" word) really shows a certain amount of ignorance. (I know. But I had to say it.)  The Cultural Dictionary definition is as follows:

socialization
Learning the customs, attitudes, and values of a social group, community, or culture. Socialization is essential for the development of individuals who can participate and function within their societies, as well as for ensuring that a society's cultural features will be carried on through new generations.

If you've ever been to school (public or private) you know that their primary goal is to educate and that any kind of  social interaction or talking (in classrooms, hallways, or assemblies) is discouraged. So kids are left to be "socialized" during unsupervised free periods with mostly immature peers.  They are not "learning the customs and attitudes of ... culture" they are usually learning how the pecking order of popularity works. 

Ah, but that's a rant for another day..... (For other posts on homeschooling and how exactly my kids are socialized - read my homeschooling archives - in which you'll read about and see them interacting with lots of people of all different ages and able to properly "... function within their societies..." - but that's not important right now.)

The second question is just as mind-boggling to me. "What about the prom?" Really?? Umm...what about prom?

I seriously hate to think that one high school dance (albeit with fabulous formal wear!) is the high water mark of anyone's high school experience, but let me go ahead and address that today...

... with photos of Lucy and her friends going to their prom....  ;-)

Held at the beautiful Disneyland Hotel, this is their one big dance of the year and because of the limited student body (who all know one another), the dance is open to both under and upperclassmen.  There were about 100 kids in attendance and easily chaperoned.

They didn't go in couples (which I thought was great and age-appropriate. =D), so they skipped over the insecure, uncomfortable, dressed-up-and-trying-to-act-grown-up-and-impress-each-other part of the ritual.

Instead they went in groups and all danced together and laughed together and overall had a wonderful time.

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The girls arrive early to do hair and make up.

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Mrs. R set out a fine spread for them to munch on while prepping.

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Aren't they just lovely? They also just happen to be whip-smart (homeschooled, remember?) and amazingly witty.

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Dad was a little reluctant to let her out of the house. Can you blame him?

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So, yes. My daughter is homeschooled, appropriately socialized, and she got to go to prom.

Any other questions??  ;-)

How to Cha-Cha

You know those uber-dorky people who have a dictionary and an atlas sitting near the dinner table so that they can look stuff up when they start arguing during dinner about ways to pronounce words, or the capital of someplace, or what exactly a rhombus is?

We are those people.

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By the way... In geometry a rhombus or rhomb is a quadrilateral whose four sides all have the same length. The rhombus is often called a diamond, after the diamonds suit in playing cards.

Yes. Us uber-dorks argue about this kind of stuff. And I'm Cuban, so arguing is like breathing to me. ;-)

When I was growing up it was that same way. The dictionary and the atlas were staples of our meals much like black beans and rice. We eat this stuff up!

But now that we are post-modernists living in the 21st century, we've added the cell phone, which is usually off-limits during meals, but that's not important right now, because now there is Cha-Cha.

And Cha-Cha knows EVERYTHING.

How it works: You text 242242 and ask your question. ChaCha texts back the answer super quickly.

In the past couple of days Cha-Cha has given us the following information:

(I was having a disagreement on the costuming for our upcoming Bye, Bye Birdie show with someone when they suggested the girls wear poodle skirts and I argued <there I go again!> that poodle skirts were pretty much gone by the time the Ed Sullivan show was happening. I was right. =D)
The Ed Sullivan Show aired from 1959 to 1967. Ed Sullivan died in October of 1974. Thanks for ChaCha'ing!

And we also learned this fun fact as I argued (of course I did!) that Alice Cooper was not his real name...
Alice Cooper had his name legallly changed from Vincent Damon Furnier in 1975. ChaCha!

So, we're arguing and ChaCha'ing and arguing and ChaCha'ing and I'm thinking..

"What could be more Cuban? Arguing and ChaCha-ing!" .... My dad would have LOVED this! =D

Learning to do advanced geometry

One of the beautiful things about home education is that I get to learn stuff alongside my kids. 

Seriously, I think back to when I was in high school and learning Algebra and Geometry.  Well, "learning" might be a bit of an exaggeration. 

I showed up. I kind of did what I was told to do. I parroted answers that I had stored for the moment when I'd have to regurgitate them and quickly forgot what I had been "taught."  Besides, I was busy learning the things I wanted to learn.  I read voraciously. I taught myself to write.

It wasn't until I started researching homeschooling that I began to see where my own education had broken down. I was never taught how to think.

In fact, although I did well in Geometry (because I was a visual learner, a term which I'm sure my teachers back in the late 60's and 70's had never even heard of) I never quite understood Algebra.  It wasn't until I had to teach my own kids that I learned how to even do Algebra. 

Painful Flashback Memory:
  I got a "D" in Algebra my freshman year of high school from Mrs. Gremmer, bless her heart.  It was a gift, really, because I think she felt sorry for me because I was trying so hard and maybe because I kissed up to her just a little, but that's not important right now. All that to say this: I just didn't get it and nobody cared.

So now I'm learning right along with them. And I couldn't be more delighted. I feel like I can learn anything. (Italian is next on my list. =D)

We're the type of family that has a dictionary at the dinner table at all times to contest a word or a spelling or a meaning of something.  (It's a lot more fun in real life than what I'm making it sound like here....) 

I once mentioned that one of the church worship leaders had a quavery voice and Eric challenged, so out came the dictionary which of course proved me correct.  =D

qua•ver (noun)
A shake or tremble in a person's voice.
Derivative: qua•ver•y (adjective)

So this week when I had some leftover picadillo and was going to make a combination emapanada/samosa, I looked to geometry to help me solve the problem.  (I know. Shut up. Go figure!)

I call them Empanadosas.
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Just to prove that yes, you can use the things I'm teaching in real life. =D

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I'm challenging you to do some Advanced Geometry to make these Empanadosas
Following this chart (which I created with Amy 's help):
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Thanks Amy Kikita for your invaluable help.  The recipe is over at Babalú blog today. (I hope you're impressed.)

The truth is that this is really more my speed:  =D

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Pure Imagination

This was a magical weekend for my son, Jonathan (the 13 year old).  He actually became Willy Wonka.

Our homeschool drama group put on the play/musical Willy Wonka Jr.

No, seriously. He wore the purple coat and the trademark top hat in a remarkably comfortable manner.  He wielded the glass-top cane as if he had been doing it all his young life.  He totally became Willy Wonka.

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And to mom and dad's everlasting relief, he even sang pretty well, too.  (*insert a heavy sigh of great parental relief here*)

The show had many delightful moments. You (obviously) had to use your imagination, but it was easy to do.

Of course, there was the chocolate river that Augustus (the appropriately stuffed gluttonous kid) fell into:
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And we managed to turn a lovely (if bratty) young lady...
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into a big, fat, gum-chewing blueberry... (this still cracks me up. =D)
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Not to mention the army of Oompa-Loompas which I have been stressing about dressing, but who look just adorable and appropriately fussy - don't you agree?
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(They glowed in the dark, too.) =D

The sets turned out wonderful. The costumes inspired. The audience was delighted.

And when he declared, "I am Willy Wonka, the greatest candy-maker of all time," it didn't take much of a stretch of the imagination for us to believe him.  ;-)

(Oh, yeah....I cried every single time he sang it. Shut up. I know. *blush, blush*)

The view from the cheap seats

While he's on stage rehearsing, I'm still painting and touching-up sets and helping to transform a rented hall into a "world of pure imagination."

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I am completely content to sit back here and do what I do to make all of them look good. 

To pull off this (or any) production it takes an amazing group of people. 

And if you were to look up "amazing group of people" in the dictionary, surely you would find our particular group of Homeschooling Parents right up there on the first page.

Set painters and seamstresses. Lighting directors and song coaches. Stage managers and prop masters.

In between these jobs we also do times tables drills, check spelling, review geography facts and instill a love of learning into our young actors.

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I am so lucky to call them friends and co-workers in this extreme labor of love.

And now we get to sit back and enjoy the fruit of our long labors.

We'll continue to work tirelessly until the curtain goes up.  We'll be the ones with the tears of pride (and relief) streaming down our cheeks and the ones who applaud the loudest.

Because putting on a production like this is a bit like giving birth. It's quite a miracle to see these self-conscious (and frankly, quite goofy) junior highers become unforgettably delightful characters.

Which, when you stop and think about it, is also the payoff we're looking forward to by educating them at home. =D

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My mother said to me, "If you are a soldier, you will become a general.
If you are a monk, you will become the Pope."
Instead, I was a painter, and became Picasso."

                                                                  ~ Pablo Picasso

ADDENDUM by way of explanation (added 2/5/09):
Yes we homeschool.

We belong to what is called the Community Home Education Program (CHEP for short). It would be considered the public school for homeschoolers.  We have access to books, libraries, and any other educational resources available to the average kid in public school.

They have optional classes available at each one of their four Orange County sites.  Each homeschooling family reports to a credentialed teacher who helps keep us on track. 

The Drama program is just one of the many activities available to our kids.  They begin in September with auditions and casting and rehearse once a week at the site (which happens to be minutes from us) in a large classroom. 

All the kids in the production are homeschooled and their parents pitch in to make it happen. We have two moms who are trained voice coaches, a dad who is a contractor, and of course, the rest of us parents who just know how to "do stuff."  =D

You look MAHVELOUS!

I have spent the last few months in drama. (And I'm not even talking about my real life here.)
I've been in high school, working with the Midsummer Night's Dream set crew.

Lucy's classes are all online, except for drama, which requires she be on campus for 3 hours a week. 

And okay, so my daughter was playing a lead, people, which was a pretty compelling reason for me to volunteer to help, but that's not important right now.   ;-)

Which is how I ended up I coordinating and dressing 24 budding teenage thespians and helping them with sets and props and all that stuff that happens behind the scenes to bring a production to life. (I also wove flower headpieces for 8 fairies, which was completely out of my personal realm of experience, but they turned out pretty cool, if I do say so myself. =D)

So this is where I've been and what I've been up to:

Giving orders to my tech crew (in this case, Adam) on where to hang the moon.
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Letting fairies express their personalities, yet making them look uniform by giving them crowns and wings, and saving them from themselves so they wouldn't look skanky (yes, I actually had to use the word "skanky.")
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And I got to costume the Royal Boy-mortals appropriately so that they would look halfway decent when pitted against those gorgeous Royal Girl-mortals.
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I was delighted with the challenge of dressing The Wall:
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Of course, the Fairy Royals had to look wonderful because, well, (ahem) my Lucy played the Fairy Jester, Puck. ;-)
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And I'm still from the old school of thinking. I believe that when you look good, you feel better.  And I knew from experience that once they were all on stage and in costume and make-up, they would turn in a wonderful performance, which is exactly what happened.

I really do think that's how it works in real life.

Yes, I know this isn't anything like real life....it's High School.  =D

Midsummer cast

"It is better to look good than to feel good, and you look MAHVELOUS!"
                                                                 ~ Billy Crystal as Fernando Lamas

(Isn't she just absolutely adorable?? I'm right, aren't I?  sigh)